The Moon in the Signs
Sex, love and relationships depend on one critical factor: Emotion. If two people are not tied to one another in a way that supports their basic needs and instincts, emotional rapport is impossible to achieve. The Moon in a birth chart is the seat of one's feelings and habit patterns. In terms of romantic and sexual potential, the Moon is all important to understand in your lover's chart. Honor the Moon, and you're well on your way to a lasting, mutually satisfying romance.
Emotional passion is a characteristic of someone with the Moon in Aries. If you are dating someone with this placement in their horoscope then expect sparks to fly. Your lover will likely be impetuous and rash when it comes to expressing their feelings and won't be shy about exposing his/her innermost sentiments for you. For your relationship to succeed however, you must always remember that the Moon in Aries lover has a dominant need to achieve and be number one. He will not settle for less than being the most important person in your life. If you can handle this, expect ardent sexuality to compliment daring emotions. The flame of love will surely burn bright.
If you date someone with the Moon in Taurus, you will be rewarded with great loyalty and persistence. You are definitely with someone who has an emotional interest in making your relationship work. Sex will be a strong desire for someone with this Moon placement since Taurus is the most sensual sign of the zodiac. Always remember that physical pleasure is connected to emotions in a powerful way for this lover. It would benefit you to know that a relationship with your Moon in Taurus love is more likely to succeed when you are able to meet his/her most dominant need of keeping things as they are. Stability is an aphrodisiac to this sign. When the Moon is in Taurus in your lover's horoscope, always reassure him that you are vested in your romance. You just might have his/her heart forever.
When the Moon is in Gemini in the birth chart of your lover, the emotions are backed up by a clever wit and talkative nature. In fact, with this romance, communication is an essential ingredient for a successful relationship. There is an almost childlike, Peter Pan quality to your lover with this Moon placement. His sexual nature will likely be fickle and his/her moods changeable. What he desires in the morning may be quite different by evening. In a relationship with someone who has the Moon in Gemini, if you honor the need he has to be recognized as smart and bright and to collect knowledge, you're that much closer to capturing his/her heart.
When the Moon is in Cancer, this lover will have strong emotions and you will need to be understanding and aware of his/her intense sensitivity. Your romance with this person is likely to be intense since someone with the Moon in Cancer has a deep desire to nurture and protect anything he has an emotional attachment too. And if you date someone with the Moon in Cancer, you can expect an attachment to occur fairly quickly. The most overwhelming need of a lover with this Moon placement is to maintain security. Safety is necessary for sexual and emotional expression. Once your Moon in Cancer love feels this sanctuary with you, he will drown you in a pool of sentiment that will never make you doubt his/her love.
If you date someone with the Moon in Leo, you will be swept off your feet and showered with absolute adoration and love right from the start. This Moon placement is emotionally driven toward expressing love and romance. Sex is a natural and carefree way for this lover to show how deep their love is. In order for your relationship to succeed with someone with the Moon in Leo, you must be aware that his/her most dominant need in life is approval and to be told often how wonderful and appreciated they are. This Moon sign often lacks security and will seek a partner to feed his/her emotional needs in that department.
When you are in a relationship with someone who has the Moon in Virgo, this lover will truly desire to serve you in any way he can. His emotional nature may tend towards self criticism and sometimes self deprecation since perfection is such a strong instinct with this Moon placement. Yet at the same time, perfection is such an impossible ideal to maintain. Sexual needs will reflect this desire and it's possible that your lover will be somewhat picky about sex and routines unless certain standards in his/her environment are met first. If you can be responsive to this as well as his/her most overpowering need to be correct and exact in all he does, then your Moon in Virgo lover will always be there for you, willing to lend a hand.
If you are dating someone with the Moon in Libra, then it will instantly become obvious that this love match will be invested in more than sex or a casual fling. The Moon in Libra has a deep need for relationships since Libra is the partnership sign of the zodiac. This will be a lover who very much wants to please you and will go out of his/her way to be fair and consider your views and needs, possibly even at their own expense. The greatest need for someone with the Moon in Libra is to be seen as well-liked, attractive and just. Be sure express to your Moon in Libra lover how much you appreciate his/her commitment to your relationship. The romance will soar!
When your partner has the Moon in Scorpio, you will have nothing short of a profound, intense emotional involvement. Scorpio is the deepest sign of the zodiac and yet on the surface you might not know it in the initial stages of dating. This is the time when they are feeling you out - deciding if you are trustworthy enough for them to reveal their innermost needs and desires. The Moon in Scorpio craves depth and this will reflect his/her attitude towards sex as well. Emotional entanglement is nearly impossible to avoid if the relationship turns sexual. And with the Moon in Scorpio, it will be deeply sexual. The most dominating need for a lover with the Moon in Scorpio is the need to know. He will want to pore right into your depths and make love to the very core of your soul.
With the Moon in Sagittarius you can expect a lover who is emotionally expressive and filled with an adventurous spirit. In terms of dating and romance, this partner will not only put you on a pedestal but may also put your entire relationship on one in order to satisfy his/her own emotional need to see the glass as half full. The Moon in Sagittarius is a philosopher at heart and will need their lover to not only listen to their opinions and beliefs, but also to respect them. If you can manage this meeting of the minds, then sex and love will always be an escapade!
When the Moon is in Capricorn in your lover's birth chart, the emotional nature may at first seem a bit shy and reserved. This is because your partner takes his/her emotions seriously. A need to be responsible and capable will likely define your romance with this person so you can be sure matters of the heart are not taken lightly. Sexually, the Moon in Capricorn will be delightfully lustful although it may take him some time to warm up. Emotions are not easily expressed and you may feel as though your partner is a wet blanket when it comes to showing feelings, but once the two of you are having sex there will be no denying them.
If you date someone with the Moon in Aquarius, there is an extreme emotional need for freedom that must be respected if you expect a relationship to get off the ground. This sign tends to intellectualize their emotions so they "think" their feelings rather than feel them. Because this is the way of Moon in Aquarius, you will sometimes feel a sense of detachment from your lover, as if he would rather go off on his/her own, or help the masses rather than snuggle up in bed to enjoy sexual delights with you. The truth is, when you have a lover with the Moon in Aquarius, it's a little of both. Experimental and progressive by nature, there will always be a need to be different and socially significant. On the other hand, we all need love. Don't be fooled just because this Moon placement doesn't show it as much.
When your lover has the Moon in Pisces, you will know instantly that you are dating someone with extraordinary sensitivity and imagination. Expect romance to be idealized and for your lover to wear rose colored glasses when he looks at you. The Moon in Pisces lover prefers to see the dream and vision rather than the reality. This can be endearing on some level, but for a relationship to work you might need more grounding. The Moon in Pisces has a need to identify with his/her visions and ideals. There is a need to transcend boundaries with this lover. At the same time, the creative potential is compelling. You may never want to come off your cloud of love!