If the planet Venus is in the sign Gemini you need to be loved for your mind above all else. You want to be valued as clever and bright and your endlessly stimulating conversation is sure to be one of your most attractive assets. In romance, if there isn't good communication then Venus in Gemini probably won't pursue a sexual relationship and you definitely can't fall in love with someone who doesn't know how to tickle your cerebellum. You enjoy variety in romance and while this does tend toward losing interest in one partner quickly, Venus in Gemini can be loyal just so long as you have a partner who understands your need for freedom and keeps you constantly stimulated.
Venus in Gemini for Women
Venus in Gemini women are witty, clever, and gravitate towards those who have a similar mind. The Venus in Gemini loves exploring the mind and learning about what other people think while at the same time, making people laugh and gossiping are two of their favorite activities. This makes the relationship fun and exciting. A Venus in Gemini will avoid people who are set in their ways, non-stimulating conversations, negative attitudes, being emotionally vulnerable, and anything that requires the same routine. Venus in Gemini loves to share ideas and needs lots of space. They can't be in relationships that requires their constant attention because they will simply leave the relationship if not given their space. They try to win over people they are interested in by displaying their knowledge on topics.
A Venus in Gemini doesn't like to settle. They are not necessarily afraid to commit to relationships, but there is a thought that a better option is out there which tends to linger in their mind. As the Venus in Gemini ages, trust in the choices that are made regarding friends and partners builds and commitment can be made.
Venus in Gemini is very honest despite the notion that many aren't because of the mischievous and intellectual nature but because they base many principals on logic and reason, truth is not something that is shied away from. Venus in Gemini analyzes each situation as it's presented and goes over the details repeatedly before giving a response. This can make it seem like the Venus in Gemini is hiding something but being certain before speaking is just how they operate.
Those that want to attract a Venus in Gemini must be able to get the laughter roaring. Venus in Gemini is a natural comedienne but engaging playfully will grab their attention. Dates should be kept fresh and flexible. Those that are into trying new experiences or are ready to switch plans at the drop of a hat will certainly get the attention of a Venus in Gemini. Due to the clever nature of the Gemini, going on dates that involve learning something new can also be a great way to get closer to them. Keeping the Venus in Gemini stimulated through intellect is something that will need to be done, not just through the courtship, but throughout the relationship itself. The Venus in Geminis will flirt with others even while in a relationship but will not cross the line and cheat. They do this more out of fun because of their sociable nature.
Venus in Gemini for Men
The Venus in Gemini men is charming, witty, sociable, playful, and non-possessive. On the downside, they can be unfaithful, immature at times, unemotional, and superficial. The Venus in Gemini also likes to keep up with the latest trends and fashions. Engaging in conversations about the latest gossip will also pique their interests.
The Venus in Gemini sometimes is non-committal because they like to explore all the possible options before making a choice. This can come across as a player behavior because Venus in Gemini will flirt with many, have many lovers, and is easily distracted. When a Venus in Gemini is in love, the patterns that are displayed are different. Similar to the Venus in Gemini woman, the way to attract a Venus in Gemini man's attention is through stimulating the mind. They are attracted to those who are clever, spontaneous, and flexible. Dates should consist of doing something new to both parties or partaking in learning a new skill or to a place where learning something new is on the table. Just remember to always keep plans flexible as Venus in Gemini can change its mind very quickly.
If you are keen on consistency and craving the attention of your partner, then the Venus in Gemini might not be the one for you. Superficial women will also not attract a Venus in Gemini but instead, gravitate towards more average looking women who are interesting and clever. Mind games are very common with the Venus in Gemini in the first stages of the relationship because of the break in the monotony. Complex personalities in women seem to be the biggest turn-ons for the Venus in Gemini. Being independent and non-possessive are also turn-ons. A Venus in Gemini doesn't mind that a partner lives their life without relying on them for constant approval or support. Venus in Gemini is generally sexually attracted to those who have a Mars in Libra, Sagittarius, Gemini, and Aquarius.